I just received this from Susan. We're in Medford for doctor appointments and car servicing. We're off for Iowa. I'll call Chuck, Carlene, and Mitch when we get settled into a campground.
FYI
Carlene emailed me from the emergency room. Chuck had been acting a little bumbly and had thrown up, so she told him she was going to take him to emergency, but he didnt' want to go, so she said in the morning she would take him, which she did.
In short, blood pressure was 200/126, and they couldn't get it down, so they checked his blood. Blood sugar, 629. (Normal is 95-125) He will be in the hospital while they flush the sugar out of his system with at least 6 liters of fluid. And they are doing a complete battery of blood tests to see what else they might find.
This developed over time. Carlene noticed that he was buying a lot of juice--mostly grape juice. She thought it was just one of his quirks, and didn't realize that he was actually drinking it wholesale for about a couple months, and always had about 40 bottles in the garage. Also drank apple and orange juice. But no water. The juice would make him thirsty, so he would drink more juice. She saw enough of this to warn him that all these juices were high in sugar, and he shouldn't be drinking so much of them, but should drink water, or he'd get diabetes. But she didn't see all he drank, as she works 5 week days and every other weekend. (Cares for Alzheimer people at their homes.) She also found out that he hadn't been taking his meds for about 2 weeks, so that fed intot he toxic mix, as well. Sometimes he is very regular with them, and other times, just doesn't do it. I think it is annoying to him to have to take them.
So the last few days, (I think she said she was home 3 days in a row at the time) she started noticing that he was more bumbly than usual, and last night, she heard him messing around in the hall for about 20 minutes and finally got up and asked what was going on. He was trying to start the washer--yes, the same one he's had for a couple decades. He didn't know how to start it. So Carlene started it for him, then turned it off and he tried again, but wasn't really "getting it". She looked at his face, and his eyeballs were bulging and bloodshot. This is when she realized he was more odd than usual and said she'd take him to the hospital. Urgent Care place was closed at 10:00 PM and he didn't want to go to emergency room at the hospital because it would cost him quite a bit and he wasn't in the mood. If she had known how serious it was, she would have taken him right then, but they waited till morning and they went in at 10:00.
I don't know what to do about him. Carlene is there about 3 days a week now, and stays with her boyfriend other times, or else is working a 48 hour shift on the weekends with the Alzheimer's. She kind of has to work to make living expenses and pays Chuck $500 a month for living there. (He allowed her to come and live with him because he believed he was doing her a favor, becaus she couldn't afford to rent an apartment. Otherwise, if was coming to "help him", he wouldn't have let her in the door. Mitch had to talk him into "helping" her.) And Chuck is so hard to live with, it has been a trial for her, but she does love him and cares about what happens to him.
She remembered that he had thrown up 2 days ago, and this might mean that he had another stroke. But could also be symptom of the high blood pressure and high blood sugar combo.
Her phone is 503-320-9744, if you want to talk with her. Might be a good idea to check in even when things aren't emergency and just keep a finger on the pulse of the situation. Times not to call would be commuter times (7-8 AM, 4-6 PM) and lunch (12-1) when she has to feed people. She's usually up until at least 10:30 PM--she's a "night person", so doesn't mind calls later in the evening. She's more free then, actually. But during the day, we communicate quite a lot through her cell phone.That email is: 5033209744@VTEXT.COM (her phone numberwith no spaces--note two 3s in a row.)
If using the cell phone email, when you reply to her message, erase both the Subject and the message, because they count as characters, and there is a limit of 160 characters, which is just a little less than 2 lines. Abbreviate "whn U can".
So, that's the update. Pray for him. He's a stubborn guy, but God knows how to reach him, and Chuck told me he still goes to church now and then, to SDA church nearby. (That was before his first stroke last year.) So he has not abandoned God, and I don't believe God has abandoned him--if for no other reason that Mom prayed enough prayers for him to extend far past her lifetime!
God bless you, bro!
Love,
Susan
Jim