It's fun to be clsoe for the first time in our lives, you know really sharing, kinda ! It seems we still sometimes act as if we are step brothers and sisters ... But we really are family; siblings and kids.
Thanks for all the concern over our family mishap. All is well ! Puppy is fine and Bianca is recovering, although her puppy was so excited to see her she opened up her slash on her neck. Totty, my puppy, is happy to have his wife back. She's not old enough yet; but they hope to mate, well actually we hope for them to make DatsChi's.
The last few weeks has been eventful for me. Work is especailly difficult. I have a lady here with Borderline Personality Disorder. I've evicted her. No money in the world is enough to have to answer to protective services, accusing family members and omsbudsmans. HELP !!!! Beleive me, I earn my money! It's always scary to see someone go who pays as much as she does. But keeping her is not beneficail for either of us. I am not greedy nor do I do anything that is not in the best interests of my clients.
My daughters are in that great stage of mothering where they think either they or the kids may not survive. I have to smile and ask them to trust me; they get stronger and all do survive. Well not everyone, but reasonable people do. As hard as it is, I have to smile and get a little satisfaction out of them being mothers, for the terrible time they put me through as kids. Mike is shocked as a two parent household, his girls aren't perfect little angels; LOL!!! He has always blaimed any kid issues in the family for the lack of the fathers. Life has proven him in error.
OK>>>> I know no one is going to step up and ask me, or say anything, but yes, I am divorced. I feel I need to give my gifts back and reimburse everyone for the time and money they spent coming to my wedding, it was such a short marriage. But it wasn't my shortest. LOL!! It's over, life goes on. I tried !!!
No more said!
When it all comes down to it, family is the only thing that matters. I'm immursed in the world I created and I am very happy with that world.
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Suzy,
No need to feel that we want anything back. I'm sorry that things didn't go the way you were hoping, but as you said, you tried. Enough said! Hope to see you and all your family at the reunion in September.
Everyone, please email us and let us know whether you're still planning on coming. September 4-7.
What more can a person hope for than to be happy with the world that they have created? I'm happy for you because you're happy.
Jim
I am sorry that things did not work out. I know you tried in all ways. I am sure that you put as much work and energy into it as you do with everything else that you do. Sometimes life just throws us a curve that we can't negotiate. What doesn't kill us makes us stronger and more sure of what is right for us. As long as you are happy, and feel that you have done everything that you could, that is what matters. How many times in life can daughters say that they have planned a wedding for their mother?
Anyway, you have my support in whatever you do if that counts for anything. Hope to see you at the coast. My plan is still to be there. I get my new schedule here in a few days. I am being given an extra day, which could be good or bad. Money wise good, time wise bad. Oh well, I'll make it work.
Hope you all have a good weekend. Love to all. Will post pics of the progress of the deck. The piers are all placed, set and level. Now for the posts.
Illa
I am always glad for your blogs, Suzanne. They are always full of a zest for life...sometimes that life is hard, sometimes its scarey (I thought pain for my kids was bad, now it is for the grandkids!!)
Sometimes its frustrating, but I thank you for always being real!! I am sorry to hear your marriage has not worked, but I agree with Illa, it is important to know that you tried your best.
I'm sorry that things didn't work for you. I want you to know that your ability to be strong has always been an inspiration for me, ever since I first started to get to know you.
Suzy, you said you were going to take the pup to the vet, how did that go. Sis
good to talk to you on the phone, and great to hear the pup is in such good health, not needing to go to the vet, just needed her mommy and grandmaa.
Look forward to seeing you again, and getting down there so I can unload some of my items to sale.
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